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Tuesday, August 16, 2011

How to Ask Your Crush on a Date (If You're A Girl )

     Having a crush on a person who doesn't know how you feel, or worse doesn't know that you exist, can be a harsh reality.  Its not as hard as it seems though to noticed. Asking a guy on a date are a huge adrenaline rush especially on us girls,it can be a frustrating experience. It is hard to decide whether to reveal it to your crush or keep it to yourself. If you are crushing and don't know what to do, I have here some tips on how to ask your crush on a date.

  • Be in the right place at the right time. It's best to ask someone out in person, so you've got to make sure to be where the guy you have a crush on is. You don't want to look like a stalker, but you do want to be able to talk to him. A simple ''hi'' every time you see him works well.
  • Take the initiative.  Walk up to him slowly but don't creep him out, and introduce yourself. Even if you already know the guy really well, still walk up to him and make small talk. If he seems to be flirting, flirt back. Keep working at it until you're at full on flirt mode. Try not to do this if he's extremely busy, but at the same time, don't let the opportunity to talk to him pass you by just because you're nervous. If he seems receptive when you introduce yourself, keep on talking to him.
  • Make eye contact with him. While the two of you are talking, make eye contact and try to hold it for just a little longer than you normally would--just a second or two, not too long. If he makes eye contact back, he's probably interested in you.
  • Commence flirting.This can mean touching him lightly on the arm, for example, or laughing at his jokes. Just be playful and communicate that you're interested. Sometimes you can flirt from afar and entice him to come over to you. Compliment him! For example you could say something like, "I love your shirt."
  • Use real life to your advantage.It’s so much easier for guys to find a flowery way to say "no" if there is a layer of technology involved. The act of asking a guy out in person connotes a level of confidence that the answer will be “yes” – why else would you feel like you could make yourself vulnerable to a real-time reaction? I know this seems unnatural.
     What do you think? Guys, would it matter to you how a girl asked you out? Are there ways to “play it” that are better than others?

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